How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Your Children with Disabilities
Part 1
Host Marsh Naidoo engages in an enlightening conversation with Todd Evans, co-author of the book "How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Your Children with Disabilities." Todd shares his journey with his wife Kristen, from their initial meeting in college to navigating the complexities of raising children with special needs while maintaining a strong marital bond.
You can listen to the full episode on your podcast platform at Raising Kellan or Spotify and YouTube
In this episode of Raising Kellan, host Marsh Naidoo engages in an enlightening conversation with Todd Evans, co-author of the book "How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Your Children with Disabilities." Todd shares his journey with his wife Kristen, from their initial meeting in college to navigating the complexities of raising children with special needs while maintaining a strong marital bond.
Todd discusses the significance of communication in marriage, especially when parenting children with complex medical needs. He emphasizes distinguishing between 'feelings' and 'problem-solving' conversations to prevent misunderstandings and strengthen relationships. The conversation also delves into the intersection of faith and disability, highlighting how faith has been a cornerstone for Todd and Kristen throughout their journey.
The episode offers personal experiences and practical insights, providing valuable guidance for parents facing similar challenges. Todd's story is one of resilience, faith, and the power of communication in building a thriving family life.
01:04 Todd and Kristen write a book about raising children with special needs
06:01 Communication
12:08 The misnomer that 80% of couples end up in divorce when raising a special needs child
14:11 Faith
21:44 What has Todd excited about the future of his family
24:03 Conclusion
Stay tuned for part two of the interview with Kristin Evans, coming soon!
Todd's podcast episode with David Hirst of the Dad to Dad Podcast https://21stcenturydads.org/352-todd-evans-of-brentwood-tn-business-owner-author-father-of-two-children-with-disabilities/
Part 2
You can listen to the full-length episode on your podcast platform or Spotify and YouTube
Kristen, a licensed master social worker, shares her motivation behind the book, emphasizing the need for practical skills to support marriages facing unique challenges. The episode delves into the mental health struggles caregivers often face, highlighting the increased risks of depression and anxiety, and the importance of addressing these issues for a healthier family dynamic.
Listeners will gain valuable insights into the framework Kristen and Todd developed, which combines communication strategies, coping mechanisms, and the significance of acknowledging grief. Kristen also touches on the benefits of counseling, mindfulness, and self-compassion as essential tools for maintaining a strong marital bond and personal well-being.
00:00 This podcast features part two of the Conversation with Todd and Kristen Evans
01:26 Kristin Evans writes a book to help couples learn practical marriage skills
02:53 Parent caregivers and all caregivers are at increased risk from mental health and physical conditions
04:54 Kristen writes about helping spouses solve difficult problems in her new book
08:33 One of the biggest factors that affect the marriage is the level of chronic stress
10:12 Grief for special needs parents can be cyclical, Kristen says
13:15 You often talk about the benefit of seeking help in terms of counseling
15:20 Kristen says parents need to prioritize their health over
20:03 Expressing and understanding your emotions
21:55 Kristen Baker created free resources on disability parenting for listeners
23:02 Conclusion
Todd and Kristin's website is disabilityparenting.com
